Pretty in *PINK*

Recently, i came across this story from a magazine which I thought was quite amusing and weird. A 14 year old boy was married to a 42 year old family friend. Weird? Apparently, the 42 year old woman seduced the boy everytime he stayed over to play with her son and they had sex. The boy felt flattered by the compliments given by the 42 year old lady whom he thought was sexy. After which, the lady claimed to be pregnant and the boy’s parents had no choice but to allow them to get married. (of cos, the pregnancy was faked) but just a while later, the 42 year old lady got to know a 23 year old man at a bar and asked him to move in with her. The boy then realised that she don’t really love him and got his dad to pick him up. So, at 15 now, he was married and divorced. WOW! How weird is that? Haha~ As I said, many weirdos around nowadays.

Haven’t blog for a long time. But just wanted to say that there are many many weirdos around recently. It’s like out of the blues, weirdos just keep popping out of nowhere. Just to list 2 that happened within this week.

Firstly, there’s this eccentric guy that i previously worked with who seems to have a mental problem. He would start smiling for no reason. Keeps going to the toilet and he can spend like a damn long time in the toilet combing his hair when there is nothing he can do at all to make it look at least a little better. Who thinks he is a heart breaker when he is like "OH MY GOD!" yucks! Who can’t do any single thing right. (so i have no idea why is he there!) Damn slow and clumsy. Doesn’t speak coherently. The WORST of all…he asked all of us at work…"AM I GAY?" Like the hell why would i know if he is gay or not! He claims to have 7 ex so shouldn’t he know if he is gay or not? haha~ Never seen someone like this before at all!!! OH MY GOD…a total idiot!

And today. I was stalked by a guy when i was walking home!!! I didn’t even realised it when he was behind me all the way from the train station and into the same lift. Guess what weird thing he did. He was looking at me in the lift and when i got off at 10th storey, I walked to my door and I realised the lift door was not closing so i turned my head and saw him standing outside of the lift and looking at me!!!! I slammed my gate before he follow me into my house! Weirdo! He’s not even those weird uncles or blangadesh workers. JUst a guy around 18 to 23. Who would have suspect him to be another weirdo!!! DAMN IT!

So…Damien and my darling…Don’t always think I’m paranoid regarding my previous posts bout guys sending girls home! NOT SAFE for a girl to go home alone at night ok! 

Is there a rule in the dating game that guys have to send the girl home after a date? If a guy don’t do so, what does it implies? He’s not interested? He don’t love you so much afterall or he’s just too tired? In this modern era, women expect equality of the sexes but why do women still get mad or disappointed or upset when her bf doesn’t send her home? Since women want equality, perhaps they should just go home themselves or maybe they should send the guys home for a change. Is it really so safe in Singapore that guys nowadays don’t give a damn about the safety of their gf? Out of 10 dates, how many times do yr bf send you home? On a personal level, a girl just like their bf to send them home cos of the sense of security she gets. It just feel so sweet and loved to have a guy to send you home in the night to show that they care or worried. Come on! It’s late in the night and it’s so quiet and dark all around. Call me paranoid! But sometimes, esp when there are Indians (not that I’m racists or anything) or middle aged men lurking at some corners, I just feel so unsafe. Is it too much to ask for? On the journey home alone, we see couples everywhere and some might start wondering why some guys just don’t like to send their girl home. Is distance a issue for a couple who is so deeply in love? Are girls taking it for granted when a guy sends herl home and expects the same treatment all the time? I understand that sometimes the guys are tired because or work or school but what if a mishap happen to the girls on her way home alone? Will the guys feel guilty? Isn’t it too late for regrets? Perhaps some girls are capable of self defence but not all are. Guys always have their reasons not to send her home and girls forever have their reasons for wanting their bf to send her home. Who will be able to come up with a set of rules for the forever complicated dating game?

Attended a wedding at M hotel on Saturday. I always love weddings for a number of reasons. Firstly, it is soooo sweet and romantic(especially church weddings)…Secondly, I love the pretty wedding gowns! Last but not least which is also the most obvious reason is of cos the FOOD! The food was pretty good man. Not too bad. Ate a lot. But wasted the wine since I can’t drink for nuts. Lousy drinker! Frankly speaking, the couple are not babe and hunk but make up always do wonders. Oops! Haha~ Wonder what would I look with a make over? Hmm…Shall do one in future. Think I would look older with all the make up and stuff man. Is that good or bad? At least I won’t look like a kid. Saw this quote a few days back by Oscar Wilde…"One should always be in love. That is the reason one should never marry." Is marriage really the graveyard of love or people are taking love too lightly now? Perhaps! But I still want to get married in future. I always envy those old couples who still walk hand in hand and still seem so loving. Another reason is because of those wedding gowns! A superficial reason? Haha~ Maybe…

Is being a perfectionist good or bad? Realised I’m getting tired and short tempered nowadays. Am i expecting too much from others and myself? Having too high expectations of others might not be too good man. I’m just tiring myself out and tend to be more frustrated when things do not go the way I intend to. Am I stressing people out? Perhaps it’s time to take a step back and learn to chill and relax. Why am I trying so hard to get things done when sometimes others can’t be bothered themselves? Am I suppose to be slack when the rest are slackers? Why do some people need to be pushed? I once chanced upon this quote: "Perfection consists not in doing extraordinary things, but in doing ordinary things extraordinarily well." Perhaps perfectionism is a double-edged sword.